Consider the lilies how they grow:
they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you
that Solomon is all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.
Luke 12:27
Over the years, Will has planted well over one hundred species of flowering plants in our yard. Each one is gorgeous in its own right. Mix them together and the fragrance and colors become a spectacular kaleidoscope for the senses.
Standing on our deck the massive explosion of color makes it difficult to distinguish each bud. Once I step off our deck and walk among the blooms, I can begin to appreciate each flower on its own. Little secrets begin to be revealed. I am able to see the intricate patterns of each one.
Each flower has an aroma unique to that particular species. Burying my nose in a Shasta daisy, I am startled by it’s pungent smell. Breathing in the scent of a freesia delivers a more pleasant result to my nose.  Still others have no detectable fragrance.
The mammoth hibiscus bloom, measuring ten inches across, lasts only one day. The yarrow on the other hand can last a month, it’s brilliant reds and purples slowly fading to white. Pansies are the only blooms in our landscape hardy enough to withstand the winter’s chill. They can be covered in a blanket of snow, yet emerge vibrant and perky when the cold abates.

Only by examining closely am I able to truly treasure each bloom. The overall view of the garden is grand, but  I cannot forget it is made up of  thousands of individual blooms.

Family is the same way. Each child, “each bloom” needs to be individually recognized and specially nurtured. The fertilizer I can pour on one generously may cause another one to go into shock. Some flowers love full sun, while others require shade. Each is unique.

Having then differing gifts
according to the grace that is given to us
Romans 12:6a

Every child has it’s own traits and talents that makes him or her an original. By patiently studying and experimenting, we find these special gifts. Pray for your child to hear directly from the Lord about the calling He has put on his or her life. Reaching in, we can encourage them see those strengths and gifts the Lord has given them. Some children recognize easily what their hidden treasures are, while others need support drawing their gifts to light.
Watch your child. Take note of their favorite pastimes. Do they show an interest in art, music, math, science, theater, words or something else? Do they posses the knack to encourage others? Perhaps organization is their strong suite? Maybe your child cries out indignantly against injustice. Whatever their special interest or passion is, you will quickly discover it after a short period of observation.
Next, begin pointing out to them their gifts.  Start cheerleading your child to develop and use those gifts for the Lord. Small steps are key steps. Each time they use those gifts it builds strength and confidence. Even if there are flops, continue to encourage them. God has a plan for your child’s future and their God-given gifts will be a large part of that plan.